Out of town. Out of touch.

Categories: Featured, Life, Science & Tech

Random Giggles: Out of town. Out of touch. - Remember when you went out of town and people couldn't get a hold of you?Remember when you went out of town and people couldn’t get a hold of you? You’d leave your house key with a trusted neighbor and they’d check your mail and maybe turn lights on in the evening and off at night. They’d make sure your washing machine didn’t accidentally flood your whole house while you were gone.

There were no cell phones in your pocket where people could still call you. If they called your number they either got no answer (because you weren’t home), or they got your machine if you were super fancy. If you were gone long enough, or if some people left exceptionally long messages, your machine would fill up and that was it for messages.

There were no smart phones, tablets, lap tops for you to check email on. You couldn’t log in to work from the beach/pool/picnic area to see what was waiting for you when you got back. You knew there’d be a lot of work waiting for you when you got back. But there was nothing you could do about it at the time so you just let it go.

The lack of modern conveniences like smart phones and such meant that you had to wait till you got back to tell everyone about your trip as well. You weren’t updating instagram or twitter the whole time telling everyone about what you were doing and where you were (which is a security threat when you think about it, why announce your house is empty?).

Last week we were in Santa Fe with my family (we lived there from 1987 to 1991). And I had my lap top. But I didn’t make checking email or social media a priority, I didn’t do it. I didn’t even read my comics and had a week of catching up to do when we got home. It was a week of sunny days Zachary Levi and Bert style.

And you know something? The world went right on spinning without me checking how it was doing every 20 minutes. It was great! All the emails I got, all the comics I didn’t read, were all waiting for me when I got back and it didn’t matter that I spent our vacation vacationing.

I can’t leave town on a regular basis and leave the internet behind. But I can decide to declare regular “Sunny Days” and maintain radio silence from home more often.

Commenting on the news

Categories: Education, Gospel, Learn Something, News

NPR: Study Delivers Failing Grades For Many Programs Training Teachers – Having gone through a teacher training program, having taught, and having worked in a teacher training program, I have several opinions on this topic. And I’d agree with the study – a lot of programs are not preparing the “highly qualified” teachers the laws require. And I believe a part of that is the professors at the university who are so far removed from what happens in real classrooms that they can’t prepare pre-service teachers for the reality of teaching. Many professors have never actually taught outside of the university themselves. And observing or doing research in schools is a far cry from actual experience.

APOD: How to Identify that Light in the Sky – Brett and I were talking once about how if it twinkles it’s a star. Here’s the rest of the chart.

Scientific American: 4 Ways to Plan a Mind-Restoring Vacation – If we have a schedule to keep or things that must be done, it’s a trip. If there are no commitments, it’s a vacation.

NPR: How Did The Meter Get Its Length? – This story sounds vaguely familiar. It’s still fun.

Deseret News: Ashley Isaacson Woolley: Ordain Women is not the answer on Mormon women’s equality – Amen. Just amen. I am not subservient. I am not silent. I am not silenced. I have never felt on unequal footing in the Gospel. Certain individuals within the Church might make others feel that way, but those are their individual actions, not the Gospel, that does that.

The Friday before Father’s Day

Categories: Family, Infertility

The Friday before Father’s Day in 2012 I left my doctor’s appointment that morning after learning I had a giant cyst on my ovary and we would have to wait another month before our next round of IVF. I stopped at Target hoping to get a Father’s Day card and left in tears because they don’t make cards that say “You are an amazing husband and the exact type of father I want our children to have.” They don’t make Father’s Day cards for infertile people. I made Brett breakfast in bed Sunday morning.

The Friday before Father’s Day in 2013 I left my doctor’s appointment that morning after learning that my body was definitely getting ready to have a baby. I stopped at Target and figured I probably needed to get two Father’s Day cards because Iddo was probably going to get here before Sunday (although I was really hoping she’d wait till Saturday evening, we had plans Friday night). I shared the breakfast the hospital brought to my bed with Brett Sunday morning.

The Friday before Father’s Day in 2014 I don’t have any doctor appointments. But Iddo and I will probably stop at Target to pick out a card anyway. I wonder who’s going to do breakfast in bed this Sunday.

While Iddo napped…

Categories: Education, News

About two weeks worth of things I’ve learned while Iddo napped.

NPR – Learning A New Skill Works Best To Keep Your Brain Sharp – Brett and I like to laugh at the commercial for the program that says it is based on the “science of neuro-plasticity.” Those people should learn to quilt instead.

Scientific American – Black Death Survivors and Their Descendants Went On to Live Longer – I find studies on the survivors of the Black Death fascinating. In part because they are my ancestors and passed on whatever benefits they got from it to me.

NPR – Flood Of Noahs Hit U.S. Cribs In 2013, Taking Baby Name Honors – This article gets the “Best Headline of the Week” award. That is all.

Scientific American – Pluto Bids to Get Back Planetary Status – I love that there are still astronomers fighting for this planet. Go Pluto!

NPR – Harry Potter And The Forbidden Books – I love the transformative power of books!

NPR – What’s Your Major? 4 Decades Of College Degrees, In 1 Graph – I think graphs like this are interesting. The rise in business majors and drop in education majors is especially interesting. I know of at least one university that dropped it’s bachelor degree for secondary ed recently. You have to get a subject matter bachelor degree and then a masters of teaching in order to be certified for secondary ed there now.

Scientific American – Anatomy Of A Dance Hit: Why We Love To Boogie With Pharrell – She doesn’t like the bridge much, but she’s definitely picked up the beat of the main part of the song on this one.

NPR – Vision Involves a Bit of Hearing, Too – The brain is so much more connected than we can even imagine. Which is interesting since imagination takes place inside our brains.

Scientific American – A Learning Secret: Don’t Take Notes with a Laptop – You can type roughly as fast as you talk. But that probably means you’re typing more notes than you need rather than focusing on the important parts. Kind of like highlighting an entire page rather than the main ideas. There’s the physical memory associated with writing that you don’t get with typing as well.

New York Times – What’s Lost as Handwriting Fades – And even more evidence about the importance of writing by hand, both print and cursive. If Iddo doesn’t learn it at school, she’ll be learning it at home. There’s something beautiful about writing by hand.

APOD: Hubble Ultra Deep Field 2014 – Images like this fill me with such a sense of awe and wonder. The majestic power of creation is astounding.

NPR – Playtime With Mom Helps Boost Toddlers’ Under-Developed Brains – It’s amazing to think that interaction with adults can have such a profound effect on brain development. Obviously not being malnourished physically is important, but it seems the research keeps pointing to the importance of not being malnourished mentally as well. I wonder if any scientists will be brave enough to study the effects of being spiritually malnourished. Also, Iddo’s up. I need to go play with her. It’s for the good of both of us.

My running partner

Categories: Exercise

When I run I’m in my own head. I think. I ponder. I solve the world’s problems. If I’m running with someone I feel like I need to be at their pace and I need to talk to them. And then I’m not solving the world’s problems. And I feel guilty if I don’t go rather than more motivated to go. The only running partner I’ve ever liked before now was my dad. And we’d run without talking and not even necessarily at the same pace. We’d start together and he’d wait for me at the end. Brett runs as well, but even if we leave the house at the same time we don’t run together. He’s a solo runner as well.

Today is National Running Day. And I’m not running today. I didn’t last year either. Last year was because I physically couldn’t (hips were falling apart). This year it’s because I’m getting my runs in on Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays.

Just yesterday I was thinking about how this is the best running shape I have ever been in my entire life, including the three marathon trainings I did. I have run 3 times a week since the beginning of the year. I do short runs on Tuesdays and Thursdays that were 3 miles each but I’m up to 4 miles now. I do a long run on Saturday, this month they’ll be 8 miles each. So far this year I’ve run 244 miles.

And I think it’s because I finally found a running partner I can really enjoy – Iddo! I made running/walking part of her daily routine (we walk the mornings we don’t run). Keeping her in a regular routine makes my life a lot easier so I’m motivated. She goes at exactly my pace. And she spends the time thinking about her world and I spend the time thinking about mine. We talk on occasion but not often. Sometimes she sleeps too.

She’s the perfect running partner. I’m looking forward to many more miles together.

The meaning of “mom”

Categories: Family, Featured

We’ve been watching for a while to see what Iddo’s first word would be. She loves to jabber and tell exciting animated stories. Unfortunately we don’t understand any of it.

This last weekend we decided she officially has a first word. She’s using it consistently enough in specific situations that we’ve decided it has a specific meaning to her. When she sees someone she raises one arm and kind of points her index finger. This is her version of a wave (reaching involves both hands). She waves and says “Hey!” Her first word is the friendly greeting “Hey!” 😀

However she has one other sound she uses with purpose, and has for a while, although it has a very broad meaning. At the end of March when she mastered the art of moving forward, she would crawl towards me when she was hungry and say “muh muh muh.” Which being interpreted meant, “I’m hungry and I need you to feed me NOW!”

Over the past few weeks the sound has changed slightly and the meaning has expanded greatly. It now sounds more like “mum mum mum mum.” And it can mean she’s hungry, tired, bored, lonely, or just generally uncomfortable. When she asks for mom, other than food, she doesn’t care if it is Brett or me who comforts her. She’s just asking for comfort.

Mom does not mean female parent for her. Mom means I need someone. Mom means comfort.

Our beautiful daughter has already taught us so much. And I know there is so much more to learn in the coming years. I hope we both always remember her first definition of mom. I hope she always finds comfort with me, her mom, and with all the other mothers who will come in to her life.

Happy Mother’s Day to all the comforters in the world.

Random Giggles: The Meaning of Mom

Things I learned this week

Categories: Books, Education, Family, Learn Something, News, Science & Tech

A few years ago as we left a dinner party I turned to Brett and asked that he help make sure I could always have conversations about research and current events and I wouldn’t be limited to diapers and nursery rhymes. I love talking about Iddo, but my world, and hers, needs to be bigger than that.

Iddo has taken to napping in the crib this week rather than my arms. While I miss the snuggles, it was getting hot with both of our bodies together like that. And I like being able to use both arms. And it gives me time to read interesting things on the internet.

So here are the interesting things I read on the internet this week and what I learned.

Scientific American: Firstborn Girls Most Likely to Succeed – I’m glad my siblings didn’t kill me off to take advantage of the IQ points of being first.

NPR: ‘Wassup, Sheep?’ He Asked – I wonder why aggression and big brains seem to correlate.

Scientific American: You Don’t Know What You’re Saying – I’ve decided that a lot of the time Iddo is speaking just to hear the sound of her own voice. I also know that there are a lot of times where I think I said one thing when I actually said something else. It’s an interesting thought to think about. I also know that when I’m trying to memorize something I do much better when I hear myself repeat it out loud than when I just repeat it in my head.

ISS HD Hearth Viewing Experiment – They put cameras on the International Space Station (ISS) and have them streaming live. You can watch the earth pass by underneath from the comfort of your own living room! They change between day and night every 45 minutes, so if it’s dark, just wait.

Red-tailed Hawk Nest – You can also watch live streaming of a red-tailed hawk nest. I have a nephew who was obsessed with them a few years ago and saw them everywhere, even the invisible ones.

Wired: A Custom Font That Helps Kids Learn to Read and Write – The idea of making fonts that make it easier to read, for all kinds of reasons, fascinates me. It’s such a simple solution that seems so obvious, but it isn’t readily used.

Wired: Why the Smart Reading Device of the Future May Be … Paper – As a lover of paper books, I thought this comparison between the types of reading done on different mediums was interesting. I thought it was particularly interesting that deep reading for comprehension is more likely to occur on paper but schools and text book publishers are really pushing e-books.

xkcd: Old Files – My desk top is dying. I bought it in January 2005. So it’s old. I need to dig through the archeological layers of files and get the important ones off before it completely goes.

Scientific American: Naughty or Nice? When Does It Begin? – I love the research that is done on how infants and small children’s brain works (which is why I loved reading The Philosophical Baby (my review) last year). Brett and I often look at Iddo and wonder how great it would be to know what she is thinking about this world she finds herself in at this time. As I read this article I thought about how to me it’s proof that we are all born with the light of Christ in us, we all know what is morally right and what is morally wrong. Of course the scientists will see it differently, but that doesn’t mean I can’t merge the science and religion of life in my own mind.

NPR: To Get Help From A Little Kid, Ask The Right Way – I’m already watching how I use adjectives with Iddo, identifying the object before describing it a lot of the times so she knows what green thing I’m talking about and learns her colors better. I’m going to watch the use of verbs and nouns as well.

A Rough Guide to Spotting Bad Science – What a great infographic. If I were still teaching college I’d use it in my lecture about analyzing research. Instead I’ll just use it to help make sure Iddo grows up a wise consumer of research. One of my favorite examples of “conflict of interest” was a few years ago when the plastic bag industry funded a study at the U of A about the amount of bacteria growing in reusable grocery bags. The study found there was a lot of bacteria but concluded that instead of washing the reusable grocery bags people should just use plastic bags.

Deseret News – Let it go: Creating new family traditions to end clutter – I think the title of this article is supposed to be a reference to a Disney movie or something. But we haven’t exactly gotten out to see movies in a few years, even less so this last year. Anyway, I don’t know how many clutter clearing traditions I’ll be starting in the near future, but I do like the idea of completely clearing out the fridge and pantry right before Thanksgiving. We’ll see how that one goes this year.

NPR: First Lady Not First Priority For Graduates – I think I liked this part of it best: “at a time when we are quick to complain that young people all think they’re supposed to be on television, maybe we should also applaud those who felt that a selfie with the family is even more important than a selfie with a celebrity”