Crafts with my kiddos – Hand & foot prints

Categories: Quilting/Sewing/Knitting/Crafting

I have very fond memories of doing crafts with my mom so it was important for me that I create opportunities for our kids to have those same kinds of memories. When Iddo was 2.5 weeks old she did her first craft project – a 4th of July shirt, which we’ve repeated every year. Since then we’ve had a lot of fun doing different art projects.

While you can find a million and one ways to have a child do a hand or foot print and then have an adult decorate it, I wanted the majority of the crafts we did to involve their creativity as much as possible, not mine. Iddo now LOVES to do hand prints with the ink pad. Here are some of the things we’ve done with hand and feet prints and what ages we did them at.

Independence Day Shirts – 2.5 weeks old, 1 year old, 2 years old and 2 months old. At two I put the paint down for the stripes and she squiggled it around with her finger by herself.

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Turkey prints – 5 months old, 1.5 years old.

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Foot Note Pad – 6 months old (the hat was a heel smudge). I’ll talk about the background next week.

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Valentine Hearts – 8 months old. I used freezer paper as the stencil, helped her do hand prints all over, and then removed the freezer paper.

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Pipe-cleaner caterpillars in the grass – 9 months old. We did hand prints for the grass and sky. I gave her pipe cleaner pieces expecting her to crumple them. She was more interested in eating them. We’d probably have better luck with this one now.

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Mother’s Day flowers – 11 months old. She was supposed to help color the grass but wasn’t into the crayons yet.

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Father’s Day grapes – 1 year old.

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Footprints – 1 year old. This was a blast. She’d just started walking and needed a bit of help to make sure she didn’t slip while she had paint on her feet. We were all laughing. I taped four papers to the ground outside and we used tempera paint so it would wash off the patio.

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Snowflake Prints – 1.5 years old. I cut out some snowflakes and glued them down and then she painted over them. It was supposed to be more like finger painting over them but she decided to do hand prints instead. And since it was her art project we let her do what she wanted.

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Butterfly and Initials – Almost 2 and 2 weeks old. It’s a lot easier to do footprints when they are brand new, so I helped the babies do footprint initials. Iddo is older so we did her hands and her feet and then she colored to add her own flair to the butterfly.

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Fall Leaves – 2 years and 2 months old, 3 months old. Iddo did her trees in a series. I instructed her to use just her finger tips to make “leaves” for the trees. By the fifth tree she was using her whole hand and really getting in to it. After doing the leaves I drew a tree trunk for her on the first tree and had her color it. She did large circles for tree trunks on the rest, needing to do some green trunk and blue sky as well by the end. I loved watching her make it her own. For Shimri’s and Shimei’s trees I used their toes and the balls of their feet to do the leaves and I colored the trunks. I can’t wait to see how they modify what I have in mind as they grow.

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New-ish Newsy News

Categories: News, Science & Tech

Some things I’ve learned in the last month or two while reading the news, basically about science, technology, and sleep.

I love Pixar. They have some of my favorite extras on their DVDs because I love learning about all the background research they did for their movies. I thought this quote from the end of the article was great, “It might seem counter-intuitive, but the best way to get audience to believe in an imaginary world is by faithfully studying our real one.”

I love space. Check out these amazing photos from the Apollo missions. I took a photo of myself “juggling” fruit on the space station a few years ago, here’s a video of some cosmonauts doing the same. And learning about the woman behind not just the software that got humans to the moon but basically invented software to begin with, that struck several chords in me.

Coming off the article about programming and space, it shouldn’t surprise anyone who knows me how excited it makes me to learn about programs to teach preschoolers to code. Brett, if you’re scanning the rest of this post, stop here and read this article. These types of programs make me giddy. I’m excited to see what our kids would do with them.

And while I’m coding with our kids I think we’ll play around with some spinning symmetry and the fold-and-cut theorem. Because learning and discovery is just fun. And it’s all kids do till we teach them to memorize and jump through school hoops.

And an appropriate article to end with before I head off to bed – Why we sleep. Or in my case, why, if I love sleep so much, do I stay up messing around on the internet so often? However, I do like a lot of the gist that my brain has distilled out of my life lately.

Tradition!

Categories: Family, Folks

Traditions tie us to our family, our roots, our community. We need them because they help us know who we are and how we relate to the world around us. I’ve been thinking about the traditions we have in our family lately. We have a lot. I love that we each brought some from our childhood that we are now making part of our kids’ childhood and that we have some that we’ve made up all on our own either purposefully or on accident. I thought today I’d just list some of our traditions. It won’t be a comprehensive list because I’m sure I’ll remember several more after pushing publish. But it should be fun to see what events we celebrate, little and small. So, here we go.

New Years Eve

  • Steak BBQ
  • Walk/jog at midnight to start the new year off on the “right” foot/a running start.

Easter

  • Watching the sun rise.
  • Roast lamb for dinner.
  • Reading the Easter story at dinner.

Thanksgiving

  • Hand-print turkeys on our Thanksgiving table runner.
  • Grandma Giles frozen salad
  • Homemade cranberry sauce (for both the turkey and the cheesecake)
  • Cheesecake

Christmas

  • Decorate the tree with homemade ornaments and thrown (not strung) popcorn.
  • Decorations go up the day after Thanksgiving and stay up through January 6th.
  • Going to Target on Christmas Eve and splitting up for 30 minutes to go buy stocking stuffers for each other (we’ll be modifying this one slightly this year because of the kids, probably doing it earlier in the month).
  • Can of soda in the stocking.
  • Caldo verde soup for dinner on Christmas Eve.
  • Bacon BBQ cracker dip for general munching on Christmas Eve.
  • A new music box on Christmas Eve.
  • Watching midnight mass at the Vatican.
  • We leave pistachios and jerky out for Santa.
  • Roast for Christmas dinner.
  • Wrapped wind-up toys and Christmas crackers (the pull kind, not the eat kind) at each plate for Christmas dinner.

Hamburger BBQ Holidays

  • Memorial Day
  • Independence Day
  • Labor Day
  • Thanksgiving Eve (because the weather is nice enough here that we can do it but it isn’t where our families live)

Family Home Evening

  • Walk around the neighborhood
  • Sugar cookies (Iddo’s preferred treat. We make them every Monday afternoon.)

Other Dates

  • Groundhogs (hot dogs) in a blanket for Groundhog Day dinner and watch the movie “Groundhog Day”
  • Calzones and jalapeño poppers for the Super Bowl.
  • Pi(e) Party for Pi Day (March 14th)
  • Little Caesar’s Pizza for the Ides of March (March 15th), because Caesar was killed on that day.
  • Roast dinner on the Summer Solstice (that’s the day Brett proposed to me and he made a roast for us for dinner that night) and a drive up to the spot where he proposed.
  • Attend the temple for my birthday.
  • Attend the temple for our anniversary.
  • Take a photo of the two of us on the 14th of every month (we were married on the 14th of the month).
  • Take a photo of each child on the anniversary of their transfer holding the previous year’s photo.

Other Events

  • Krispy Kreme after going to the temple.
  • Waving and blowing kisses when one of us leaves home.
  • Saying goodnight to each other in English and Portuguese.
  • Dad saying goodnight to the kids in Hebrew, me saying goodnight to the kids in Portuguese.
  • Waffles for lunch on Sunday. Alphabet soup for Sunday dinner. Popcorn and apple juice for snack before bed on Sunday.
  • Taco Monday

And a little child shall lead them

Categories: Family, Gospel

As I was preparing to leave to serve a mission in Brasil I remember being concerned that I didn’t have the Portuguese vocabulary to share a grand testimony with the people I would teach. I had simple words and simple phrases. But I quickly learned that it is often the simple testimonies that are the most powerful. A truth, simply and clearly stated, is a beautiful thing.

I also remember the sweet spirit that would come when someone would say their first prayer and the privilege I felt at being there to hear their innocent communications with deity. Again it was the simple phrases, the honesty they expressed, that really stood out to me.

And now I am being taught how to truly testify and pray by our 2-year-old. She loves to testify of everything she knows. And that means that she can tell me Heavenly Father loves her and then immediately after tell me that clouds are outside. Both statements are true and that’s all the connection she needs in her mind. Truth is truth. It doesn’t get any more complicated than that. She doesn’t need big words or involved stories to her truths. They just are. And because she states the so clearly and without hesitation she’s taught me to do the same. God does love me. Prayers are answered. Temples are the House of God on the Earth. Families can be forever. The priesthood power is real.

And she loves to pray. Now that she knows how to pray we’re having to teach her that we all have to take turns praying at meals and for our family prayer because she would say them all. She likes to randomly fold her arms throughout the day and say a little prayer and as soon as she’s finished and we’ve both said “amen” she starts a whole new prayer. Pray always. And she does.

And her prayers are so specific. She’s thankful not for the food but for tacos or soup or waffles. She’s thankful not that we had a good day but that we went to the park and that we go to the temple. She’s called out while one of us is saying the prayer to remind us to bless that Grandpa gets better or that Daddy’s leg will stop hurting. Her prayers are not long and they don’t need to be because saying “amen” isn’t the end of praying, it’s just the end of that particular prayer and we can start another one whenever we want.

Watching our daughter grow in the Gospel has been a wonderful reminder of just how much we adults over think things and complicate things, especially the beautiful simplicity of the Gospel. Isaiah said “and a little child shall lead them” (11:6) and she really is in many ways.

No photos please

Categories: Science & Tech

You might have noticed that there aren’t any real photos of our children either here on my site or on our family site. If there are then their faces are obscured in some fashion either by the nature of the pose in the picture or they are blurred out. We do the same with the one or two photos that we put on social media as well. That’s for several reasons, all of them related to privacy.

Our children need the chance to develop their own life in the public eye, not one that we’ve created for them. They are growing up in a completely digital world and shouldn’t be haunted in their adulthood by things we did as parents when they were little. But there are also a lot of weird people out there, and it’s our job as parents to protect them from the creeps and weirdos as much as possible.

If you are sharing photos of your kids online you need to be aware of privacy settings and who exactly has access to your photos. There’s a whole group of people out there that love to commandeer photos of other people’s kids to play with (BabyRP). Some of it might not be sexual, but it’s still creepy.

And if you are sharing photos of other people’s kids, always make sure you have permission first.

One in Four

Categories: Family, Infertility

One in four pregnancies will end in a miscarriage or still birth. One in four.

I’ve had four pregnancies. Two of my pregnancies ended completely in miscarriage. My fourth pregnancy was a mix – our twins were triplets for two months.

Four pregnancies. Three children. Three miscarriages.

Our angels

After the death of our first son we wondered if we’d celebrated his life too soon. If we should have waited until we were in the “safe zone” before getting excited that we were expecting a baby. It did not take us long however to decide that celebrating his life, however brief it was, was the right thing to do. And so we celebrate and remember. And from time to time I still mourn what might have been, who they might have been.

October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. The 15th of the month is specifically designated as National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day. Several other countries have also adopted it. In honor of the millions of children who left too soon, please join with us tonight in participating in the International Wave of Light. Wherever you are, at 7:00pm, light a candle and leave it burning for an hour. As the world revolves a wave of light will circle the globe.

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News of the week (or so)

Categories: Books, Education, Learn Something, News, Science & Tech

More headlines and news stories that caught my interest and will probably be brought up in some fashion during small talk some time in the future.

Scientific American | Creative People Are… – Love this list. Now to figure out how to help our children develop these qualities. Because it can’t all be nature. A lot of it is nurture as well.

National Geographic | Your Baby’s Brain Holds the Key to Solving Society’s Problems – This is an interview with the author of the book Thirty Million Words: Building a Child’s Brain. Talking with kids and babies, not just at them, is so important. Shimri and I regularly have conversations, most of them she wins. That girl’s got whit. And Shimei love to tell us all about the humorous side of life. And Iddo is constantly surprising us with her take on the world.

Scientific American | Sunset on Pluto [Slide Show] – Pluto – proving that even dwarf planets are worth exploring.

BBC | Can eating more than six bananas at once kill you? – It won’t kill you, but I know from second-hand experience that it can make you very sick. Some guys I knew tried it one night. It wasn’t pretty the next day.

BBC | Mapping Australia’s dinosaur landscape – Okay. That’s interesting about the tracks. But now I’m wondering where are all the fossilized remains? What happened to the physical dinosaurs? Did they all just walk away and die elsewhere? Why didn’t the article mention any answers to those questions? Do scientists not know those answers yet? Is someone at least trying to figure out the answers?

BBC | The most common song you can’t sing in public – I didn’t not know that “Happy Birthday” was a copyrighted song. Now I want to go sing it in public.

BBC | Army mothers pose for photo – while breastfeeding babies – Go Fort Bliss! (I used to live in that area.) The thing that gets me about these breastfeeding photos is that they got all the kids to eat at the same time. Scheduling that is amazing.

BBC | Google launches Kenya’s Samburu Park on Street View – The next time all the kids are napping at the same time I’m going to go on safari!

Scientific American | People Are More Likely to Cheat at the End – Interesting. And the ending of things does have a strange effect on us. I didn’t know that about the rats nearing the end of the maze having a dopamime effect on the brain, but I’d say it’s probably similar to the feeling the last few miles of a marathon as you near the end – if you have enough physically left you really just want to lay it all out there and finish big. You get to sit down at the end after all.

BBC | Tai Chi ‘could be prescribed’ for illnesses – I’ve been interested in taking up Tai Chi for a while now. Maybe I should look into it a little more seriously.

BBC | Homer’s Iliad performed in 15-hour London epic – How cool is that! I love that they did it. I find it interesting they made it a moving (literally) performance. They broadcast it live. I wonder if it’s still available online to watch. I wonder how many small segments I’d have to watch it in during nap times to finish it.

There were a couple of articles about the Ig Nobel awards (BBC | ‘Universal urination duration’ wins Ig Nobel prize, NPR | The 2015 Ig Nobels: Studies That Make You Go ‘Huh?’, and NPR | Harvard Honors Scientific Researchers With Ig Nobels among others I’m sure). These always make me glad my research did not involve urine or being stung by bees. This is also one of the few awards ceremonies I’d like to attend some day.

BBC | The man who bought Stonehenge – and then gave it away – Bet you didn’t know this either.

NPR | Planets Transit The Desert In 7-Mile Scale Model Of The Solar System – We look at drawings in books or small mobiles and think we understand the solar system. But it’s super hard to model the scale of it. It’s HUGE. And even then it’s only a teeny tiny portion of the galaxy, which is a speck of dust in the universe.